"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how did i get over my fear of women!

boulepiquante

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i recommend THE 3 MINUTE THERAPY BY mike EDELSTEIN
a book that helped deal with my fears and anxieties
this book really kicks ass , is easy to read and the 3 minute therapy can be applied within minutes for whatever problem you have ( fear of exam failure fear of women fear of heights fear of not able to get it up)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i'm reading some intro to NLP stuff and i must say: if you do what it tells you it really does work.

helps get rid of fear and really lets you use 100% of your mind and confidence all the time.

check out NLP guys.

edit: the best way to get rid of fear of women is to convince yourself that you are better then them and that their reaction to you mean absolutely nothing.

i got blown off twice today and i didn’t give a ****. Few days ago a female called me a creepy loser, I told her to “stop being so uptight” lol. That’s my favorit line to use on the *****y ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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