"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how did i get over my fear of women!

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i recommend THE 3 MINUTE THERAPY BY mike EDELSTEIN
a book that helped deal with my fears and anxieties
this book really kicks ass , is easy to read and the 3 minute therapy can be applied within minutes for whatever problem you have ( fear of exam failure fear of women fear of heights fear of not able to get it up)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i'm reading some intro to NLP stuff and i must say: if you do what it tells you it really does work.

helps get rid of fear and really lets you use 100% of your mind and confidence all the time.

check out NLP guys.

edit: the best way to get rid of fear of women is to convince yourself that you are better then them and that their reaction to you mean absolutely nothing.

i got blown off twice today and i didn’t give a ****. Few days ago a female called me a creepy loser, I told her to “stop being so uptight” lol. That’s my favorit line to use on the *****y ones.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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