"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how did i get over my fear of women!

boulepiquante

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i recommend THE 3 MINUTE THERAPY BY mike EDELSTEIN
a book that helped deal with my fears and anxieties
this book really kicks ass , is easy to read and the 3 minute therapy can be applied within minutes for whatever problem you have ( fear of exam failure fear of women fear of heights fear of not able to get it up)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i'm reading some intro to NLP stuff and i must say: if you do what it tells you it really does work.

helps get rid of fear and really lets you use 100% of your mind and confidence all the time.

check out NLP guys.

edit: the best way to get rid of fear of women is to convince yourself that you are better then them and that their reaction to you mean absolutely nothing.

i got blown off twice today and i didn’t give a ****. Few days ago a female called me a creepy loser, I told her to “stop being so uptight” lol. That’s my favorit line to use on the *****y ones.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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