How could I obtain status?

[RichardTheFrog]

I went downtown last night. Talked to a few bartenders. Had some pretty decent and pretty long conversations with a couple of them.

One of them told me that her boyfriend played guitar downtown. Okay I know you will all disagree with me, but that is not impressive. All she probably likes is the status. I used to play guitar until I broke my neck and half paralyzed my left hand.

Flipping houses and making lots of money or even being a millionaire (which I'm not, but still plan on it) should be a higher status than that.

So what could I do to get higher status than a guy who plays guitar downtown? I can't believe these girls date losers like that and think they're cool.

 

[Glassguy]

Buy that Lambo and all of your problems and anti socialism will disappear lol.

 

[cola]

I think girls are so impressed when you take them downtown walk in a bar and your pulling her by the arm and you hi-5 like 10 people along the way that know you.

In other words to build status first build relationships. Don't go out and talk to girls talk to guys too.

 

[Glassguy]

I think girls are so impressed when you take them downtown walk in a bar and your pulling her by the arm and you hi-5 like 10 people along the way that know you.

In other words to build status first build relationships. Don't go out and talk to girls talk to guys too.

True.
Status is built and earned. It cannot be bought.

Making money, having a very strong social circle, having a fun/laid back/outgoing personality and a strong frame are things that take work, time and effort. As Cola said, they ALL require a building of relationships to achieve them.

Women want things that are desirable and important. They dont want things that are cheap and come super easy.

The most important thing when out with a chick is to understand that women react best to feelings and emotions and not what they see. This is why push/pull and negging work so well with women. Its a constant shake up of their emotions and triggers. When you take a woman to a pub/venue where people recognize you, she gets the feeling and emotion that you are a well liked and popular guy (status).

Richard you seem to have very few friends based on your posts. You tend to go drinking a lot alone. You really arent doing anything to build a network of a social circle in your life and whether you want to acknowledge it or not, it is one of the main components to build status and meet more women.

 

[Serenity]

Status is not as many guys think related to money. It's about how good you are at making people around you feel good. Flipping houses doesn't exactly display status. Playing guitar and people around enjoying it does display status.

The guitar guy has higher status than you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Status is not as many guys think related to money. It's about how good you are at making people around you feel good. Flipping houses doesn't exactly display status. Playing guitar and people around enjoying it does display status.

The guitar guy has higher status than you.

HAHAHAHA.

That's hilarious.

Every high school kid in the world plays guitar.

 

[Glassguy]

Status is not as many guys think related to money. It's about how good you are at making people around you feel good. Flipping houses doesn't exactly display status. Playing guitar and people around enjoying it does display status.

The guitar guy has higher status than you.

Because it creates emotion.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

HAHAHAHA.

That's hilarious.

Every high school kid in the world plays guitar.

Dude stop being a hater. It's not attractive. Accept the world is a certain way, it doesn't have to be what you think it should be.

 

[Murk]

Some people just don't get it.

 

[Mike32ct]

The other thing is most women don’t know you flip houses. The funny thing about status is it only works if people know about it.

A guy could own his own business and be very well off yet dress modestly and be ignored by women.

I say get the Lambo. Then there’s no misunderstanding lol.

 

[The Duke]

To me status has a lot to do with having the ability to influence(create emotions) and somewhat be admired by a group of people(fans, peers, competitors, colleagues, etc).

I have high status with one of my hobbies I compete in. It was achieved because I produced results that caused people to take notice. Its opened many doors for me that weren't open before.

Its really a big schitt show and attracts some people for the wrong reasons much like a Lamborghini will attract gold diggers.

 

[Serenity]

HAHAHAHA.

That's hilarious.

Every high school kid in the world plays guitar.

Only a few of them plays it well to the extent that others want to listen to it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

True.
Status is built and earned. It cannot be bought.

Making money, having a very strong social circle, having a fun/laid back/outgoing personality and a strong frame are things that take work, time and effort. As Cola said, they ALL require a building of relationships to achieve them.

Women want things that are desirable and important. They dont want things that are cheap and come super easy.

The most important thing when out with a chick is to understand that women react best to feelings and emotions and not what they see. This is why push/pull and negging work so well with women. Its a constant shake up of their emotions and triggers. When you take a woman to a pub/venue where people recognize you, she gets the feeling and emotion that you are a well liked and popular guy (status).

Richard you seem to have very few friends based on your posts. You tend to go drinking a lot alone. You really arent doing anything to build a network of a social circle in your life and whether you want to acknowledge it or not, it is one of the main components to build status and meet more women.

Making money isn't easy, though. And it obviously takes a certain amount of intelligence to make that happen.

But this topic has been beaten to death.

But I actually have been slightly more social with other guys the last few times I went out.

 

[Roober]

I believe this is a perfect example of not looking at the whole picture...

The status is not the key. The key here is that this guy illustrates creativity and passion for something other than himself, that is what women love.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I believe this is a perfect example of not looking at the whole picture...

The status is not the key. The key here is that this guy illustrates creativity and passion for something other than himself, that is what women love.

Then flipping houses is the same thing.

 

[Glassguy]

Making money isn't easy, though. And it obviously takes a certain amount of intelligence to make that happen.

But this topic has been beaten to death.

But I actually have been slightly more social with other guys the last few times I went out.

Making money is actually easy and has much more to do with hard work, creating a process and sticking to that process and less about intelligence.

Most millionaires/billionaires have an IQ under 135. It's a fact. The reason they are successful is through hard work and ability to surround themselves with people who are good at what they lack themselves in order to achieve their success.

Be successful and the money will follow.

You should read the book called 7 Habits of Highly Successful People.

Often times a strong social group is much more about success than it is money.

Also read 13 Fatal Errors Managers Make and how to avoid them.

You are so stuck on money. It's better to have than not have, but its not the basis of anything of value when it comes to great relationships.

I have very close friends in my social circle that are millionaires. There are also people who struggle to make $50k a year. Their money status doesnt affect our friendship and relationship.

Its important to make money. Its important to get women. It's not of the greatest importance to chase either.

Why? Because it's never ending. Always more money to chase and always another woman around the corner.

You should however constantly be chasing your goals and pushing yourself to achieve them. Its all about self improvement.

"Most people dont plan to fail, they fail to plan".

No planning = no goals to chase = stale and not growing as an individual.

 

[Glassguy]

Then flipping houses is the same thing.

If you like doing it and you live the way you want from the money it makes, then its successful.

Never let anyone else determine your self worth and success. That's for you to determine and if you do it correctly and continue growing individually, others will see you as successful as well.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Then flipping houses is the same thing.

Most women do not appreciate the drive, ethic and passion in a man who makes his money in business, etc.

They do love broke rappers and musicians though.

I'm asking you to get you pvssy game up. It sounds like your house flipping game is tight, but your man wh0re game is not doing well .

 

[Reykhel]

I'm asking you to get you pvssy game up

What's your situation like?

Wasn't the final conclusion arriving at too much posting...

 

[Billtx49]

Then flipping houses is the same thing.

No it’s not, women will see it as just another job. If you make changes to the structures to flip them and it comes up in a convo tell women you improve houses to your desired standards.
Direct the convo to that, not just, I flip houses. Put the verbal focus on your passion, creativity, and talents…
If you can sell houses, you can sell yourself. Some bums do it all the time…