in class yesterday chatting it up w/ a friend. friend asked me about a past professor and i knew some hot snob knew the answer to the question. anyway, i call her name, and she doesn't even respond to me (even though i'm 100% sure she heard me call her name). anyways, it makes me lose value to the other chicks in class... having to call this girl's name several times. what are ways to save face when dealing w/ a snobby girl like this? i just brushed it off like it wasn't a big deal. but it's a pet peeve of mine when any person acts like they're too cool to answer to anyone.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how could i have saved face?
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spider_007
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call her a funny name (light neg)
eg;
-Hey jen!!!
-Hey Jen!!!!!!
-Hey Jen, tell your grandma you need your hearing aid back!!!!
or something that's even more funny and could possibly make the class laugh at her snobby ass.
eg;
-Hey jen!!!
-Hey Jen!!!!!!
-Hey Jen, tell your grandma you need your hearing aid back!!!!
or something that's even more funny and could possibly make the class laugh at her snobby ass.
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You should have said "I didn't know lack of sex affected your hearing so much"john_1234 said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Just brush it off, you shouldn't even be this affected.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
If she's hot, you will only come off as a frustrated guy yourself.
Le Parisien said:Just brush it off, you shouldn't even be this affected.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
If she's hot, you will only come off as a frustrated guy yourself.
you reminded me of a rule i strive to go by "be unaffected." but man, it really annoys me when any person behaves this way
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Actually it's NOT even a rule, you should have this mindset that naturally doesn't get you affected. If you are telling yourself "I shouldn't be affected by this", then you are already affected...john_1234 said:
But everybody goes through this at a certain point of their life. So don't worry, it's normal.
I used to be affected by sh*t like this as well. Due to the racism that I endured in my highschool years, I used to be quite self conscious. And then with experience and positive feedbacks I got through out the years, I became confident, I don't get bothered by things like this anymore.
Hope this helps.
She just wasn't paying attention to you. No biggie. Lots of people can tune out other conversations around them. Sounds like you were expecting her to immediately jump into your conversation at your beckin' call.
Next time why don't you get her attention first... <smile> and then ask her the question. Then maybe she'll be interested in responding.
Next time why don't you get her attention first... <smile> and then ask her the question. Then maybe she'll be interested in responding.
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throw a paper ball at the back of her head. If she doesn't respond, keep doing it