in class yesterday chatting it up w/ a friend. friend asked me about a past professor and i knew some hot snob knew the answer to the question. anyway, i call her name, and she doesn't even respond to me (even though i'm 100% sure she heard me call her name). anyways, it makes me lose value to the other chicks in class... having to call this girl's name several times. what are ways to save face when dealing w/ a snobby girl like this? i just brushed it off like it wasn't a big deal. but it's a pet peeve of mine when any person acts like they're too cool to answer to anyone.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
how could i have saved face?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
call her a funny name (light neg)
eg;
-Hey jen!!!
-Hey Jen!!!!!!
-Hey Jen, tell your grandma you need your hearing aid back!!!!
or something that's even more funny and could possibly make the class laugh at her snobby ass.
eg;
-Hey jen!!!
-Hey Jen!!!!!!
-Hey Jen, tell your grandma you need your hearing aid back!!!!
or something that's even more funny and could possibly make the class laugh at her snobby ass.
Mr_knowit_all
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You should have said "I didn't know lack of sex affected your hearing so much"john_1234 said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Just brush it off, you shouldn't even be this affected.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
If she's hot, you will only come off as a frustrated guy yourself.
Le Parisien said:Just brush it off, you shouldn't even be this affected.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
If she's hot, you will only come off as a frustrated guy yourself.
you reminded me of a rule i strive to go by "be unaffected." but man, it really annoys me when any person behaves this way
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Actually it's NOT even a rule, you should have this mindset that naturally doesn't get you affected. If you are telling yourself "I shouldn't be affected by this", then you are already affected...john_1234 said:
But everybody goes through this at a certain point of their life. So don't worry, it's normal.
I used to be affected by sh*t like this as well. Due to the racism that I endured in my highschool years, I used to be quite self conscious. And then with experience and positive feedbacks I got through out the years, I became confident, I don't get bothered by things like this anymore.
Hope this helps.
She just wasn't paying attention to you. No biggie. Lots of people can tune out other conversations around them. Sounds like you were expecting her to immediately jump into your conversation at your beckin' call.
Next time why don't you get her attention first... <smile> and then ask her the question. Then maybe she'll be interested in responding.
Next time why don't you get her attention first... <smile> and then ask her the question. Then maybe she'll be interested in responding.
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throw a paper ball at the back of her head. If she doesn't respond, keep doing it