in class yesterday chatting it up w/ a friend. friend asked me about a past professor and i knew some hot snob knew the answer to the question. anyway, i call her name, and she doesn't even respond to me (even though i'm 100% sure she heard me call her name). anyways, it makes me lose value to the other chicks in class... having to call this girl's name several times. what are ways to save face when dealing w/ a snobby girl like this? i just brushed it off like it wasn't a big deal. but it's a pet peeve of mine when any person acts like they're too cool to answer to anyone.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how could i have saved face?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
spider_007
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call her a funny name (light neg)
eg;
-Hey jen!!!
-Hey Jen!!!!!!
-Hey Jen, tell your grandma you need your hearing aid back!!!!
or something that's even more funny and could possibly make the class laugh at her snobby ass.
eg;
-Hey jen!!!
-Hey Jen!!!!!!
-Hey Jen, tell your grandma you need your hearing aid back!!!!
or something that's even more funny and could possibly make the class laugh at her snobby ass.
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You should have said "I didn't know lack of sex affected your hearing so much"john_1234 said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Just brush it off, you shouldn't even be this affected.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
If she's hot, you will only come off as a frustrated guy yourself.
Le Parisien said:Just brush it off, you shouldn't even be this affected.
This happens to all of us.
- Hey Jen...
- Heeelloooo Jen...
- Sorry didn't know you were deaf...
Other people will only notice some one who's such a b*tch that she doesn't answer to people calling her name. However, if you start to feel awkward and give out this impression that you were affected and have this weird look on your face, then yeah, you will lose value in other people's (especially the HBs) eyes.
If she's hot, you will only come off as a frustrated guy yourself.
you reminded me of a rule i strive to go by "be unaffected." but man, it really annoys me when any person behaves this way
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Le Parisien
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Actually it's NOT even a rule, you should have this mindset that naturally doesn't get you affected. If you are telling yourself "I shouldn't be affected by this", then you are already affected...john_1234 said:
But everybody goes through this at a certain point of their life. So don't worry, it's normal.
I used to be affected by sh*t like this as well. Due to the racism that I endured in my highschool years, I used to be quite self conscious. And then with experience and positive feedbacks I got through out the years, I became confident, I don't get bothered by things like this anymore.
Hope this helps.
She just wasn't paying attention to you. No biggie. Lots of people can tune out other conversations around them. Sounds like you were expecting her to immediately jump into your conversation at your beckin' call.
Next time why don't you get her attention first... <smile> and then ask her the question. Then maybe she'll be interested in responding.
Next time why don't you get her attention first... <smile> and then ask her the question. Then maybe she'll be interested in responding.
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throw a paper ball at the back of her head. If she doesn't respond, keep doing it