"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How come?

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Ok.. Everyone give their own opinions on this..

I just don't get it. I can tell plenty of girls like me, but what I don't get is - What's up with the rest of the girls?

Why don't ALL regular girls like me? I mean, I can accept the fact that not ALL hot girls, or any HOT girl for that matter likes me.

But for those regular average yet ****able women, what right do they have to NOT like me?

I mean, what gives? I like girls who are 7/10 and up, why do some girls NOT like me? Most girls say i'm fairly attractive, cute yes.. I have status and money and cars.. Yet I can't accept the fact that SOME average girls do NOT like me.

forgive me for typing some words in caps to emphasize what I mean
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jakeyboy

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dude dude. the reason you have these stupid thoughts is because you have got too much time on your hands. the ego is getting too big for your head brotha. get out, breathe in some fresh air and hang out with the fellas. forget about worrying if these hot or average girls like you or not. damn, everyone is entitled to a chance to choose who they like. that girl who doesnt like you may like another DJ.

if all hot or average girls were to like you, where would that leave any booty for us? rich is ruthless, share the wealth brother! chill mate. the world's not ending. not everyone's personality may fit yours, just goes the same for you, a girl out there may be wondering why you don't like her! you have a choice if you wanna like her or not right? so does she. (even though she's not a hottie)
 

Tha Realnezz

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Who says all the hoes al the hoes should ove you.Alot of them do front and front HARD even to the point of attacking your credibility with the other hoes.But this doens't mean you'll get all of them ever.Just deal with it don't back down from the game cuz of this either.
 

Dee-Zy

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It's called individuality.


And also opinion, different ppl have different tastes. What happened to posting less?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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