Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
then date the hot ones. problem solved? problem solved.:yes:JPlaya said:I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
cause hot girls have more options and more power an didnt need a boyfriend and they are usually after the top 5% of alphas who are men that dont need a girlfriend cause they have 99% of females chasing them..JPlaya said:I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And there it is.Delly2000 said:I think people already touched on it.
But beautiful women always have somebody. They may claim to be single but they got one or Two guys tappin that @$$. Somebody that buys em things. The Chauffuer and errand boy. They arent official with the guy hitting it either because they dont like(looks, money, personality, connections) the guy that enough (they are waiting for a more alpah male or their type), or because the guy doesn't want to commit.
I don't beleive that beautiful women are sitting up in their rooms all couped up and dont get approached by guys because they are so fine. I so don't beleive that. I see that theory put forth and perpetuated alot on here and think it is so deceiving. Women might say this but they are probably telling you half of the story.
Women dont want to be alone. Under some circumstances you might catch one that is available maybe after a break up and she "cooling off" but she wont be "single" long.
This is the most homo-erotic thing I've ever read.JdelaSilviera said:As a guy, who´s puberty ****ed up his beauty
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Made me lolThis is the most homo-erotic thing I've ever read.
In my experience most hot girls aren't very good quality in terms of relationships. The ones that are in relationships I can usually tell why the guy is going out with them...they girl is hot. I asked myself the same question you're asking now.JPlaya said:I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
I watched that clip for about 2 seconds and then got annoyed with that beezy and shut it off lol.okyoureabeast said:Watch this video all of the way through. Ignore her mannerisms in the beginning because I almost didn't watch it haha.
http://youtu.be/h4c5UIGNTQw
This girl, while sounding ditsy and stupid gets it completely spot on. This is why most hot girls do not have boyfriends.
I lol'd. That chick cracks me up.okyoureabeast said:Watch this video all of the way through. Ignore her mannerisms in the beginning because I almost didn't watch it haha.
http://youtu.be/h4c5UIGNTQw
This girl, while sounding ditsy and stupid gets it completely spot on. This is why most hot girls do not have boyfriends.
Cosigned. All beautiful women have somebody. For every task. Until they get the all-in-one man.DonGorgon said:cause hot girls have more options and more power an didnt need a boyfriend and they are usually after the top 5% of alphas who are men that dont need a girlfriend cause they have 99% of females chasing them..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.