You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
then date the hot ones. problem solved? problem solved.:yes:JPlaya said:I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
cause hot girls have more options and more power an didnt need a boyfriend and they are usually after the top 5% of alphas who are men that dont need a girlfriend cause they have 99% of females chasing them..JPlaya said:I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
And there it is.Delly2000 said:I think people already touched on it.
But beautiful women always have somebody. They may claim to be single but they got one or Two guys tappin that @$$. Somebody that buys em things. The Chauffuer and errand boy. They arent official with the guy hitting it either because they dont like(looks, money, personality, connections) the guy that enough (they are waiting for a more alpah male or their type), or because the guy doesn't want to commit.
I don't beleive that beautiful women are sitting up in their rooms all couped up and dont get approached by guys because they are so fine. I so don't beleive that. I see that theory put forth and perpetuated alot on here and think it is so deceiving. Women might say this but they are probably telling you half of the story.
Women dont want to be alone. Under some circumstances you might catch one that is available maybe after a break up and she "cooling off" but she wont be "single" long.
This is the most homo-erotic thing I've ever read.JdelaSilviera said:As a guy, who´s puberty ****ed up his beauty
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Made me lolThis is the most homo-erotic thing I've ever read.
In my experience most hot girls aren't very good quality in terms of relationships. The ones that are in relationships I can usually tell why the guy is going out with them...they girl is hot. I asked myself the same question you're asking now.JPlaya said:I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
I watched that clip for about 2 seconds and then got annoyed with that beezy and shut it off lol.okyoureabeast said:Watch this video all of the way through. Ignore her mannerisms in the beginning because I almost didn't watch it haha.
http://youtu.be/h4c5UIGNTQw
This girl, while sounding ditsy and stupid gets it completely spot on. This is why most hot girls do not have boyfriends.
I lol'd. That chick cracks me up.okyoureabeast said:Watch this video all of the way through. Ignore her mannerisms in the beginning because I almost didn't watch it haha.
http://youtu.be/h4c5UIGNTQw
This girl, while sounding ditsy and stupid gets it completely spot on. This is why most hot girls do not have boyfriends.
Cosigned. All beautiful women have somebody. For every task. Until they get the all-in-one man.DonGorgon said:cause hot girls have more options and more power an didnt need a boyfriend and they are usually after the top 5% of alphas who are men that dont need a girlfriend cause they have 99% of females chasing them..
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.