Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I reckon its because men don't give a d@mn. Maybe its part of the female agenda thing too, like you must be trying to angle at. But you know, if someone's going to make a huge drama-loaded deal about something, it's women.•Prostate cancer is diagnosed every 2 3/4 minutes, approximately 190,000 new cases each year. It is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in America among men.
Breast Cancer Cases in 2007
The National Cancer Institute estimated new cases to be 178,480 (female) and 2,030 (male).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
a valid point.ready123 said:you dudes that look at everything through both a feminism filter and a victim filter are just helpless little btches aren't you
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This.ready123 said:you dudes that look at everything through both a feminism filter and a victim filter are just helpless little btches aren't you
"waaahhh nobody's running marathons for prostrate cancer, nobody loves me waahhhh"