"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how come there is no funding raising campaign for prostate cancer?

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how come there is no funding raising campaign for prostate cancer?

I only see a blizkeig of women breast cancer campaign across the US & Canada.

Is prostate cancer being sweep aside as insignificant?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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•Prostate cancer is diagnosed every 2 3/4 minutes, approximately 190,000 new cases each year. It is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in America among men.

Breast Cancer Cases in 2007
The National Cancer Institute estimated new cases to be 178,480 (female) and 2,030 (male).
I reckon its because men don't give a d@mn. Maybe its part of the female agenda thing too, like you must be trying to angle at. But you know, if someone's going to make a huge drama-loaded deal about something, it's women.
 

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Cause the worst thing that can happen after getting a prostate removed is not having kids...something a ton of healthy guys wish they could do anyway.

Anyway there's a new sonic device in development for prostate exams that excludes having a doctor shove a finger up your pie hole for examination...which is the PRIME reason that most guys approaching 40 don't have prostate exams in the first place.
 

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Because it's not politically correct. Breast cancer and AIDS are the two most political correct diseases because one affects exclusively women and one disproportionately effects gays and the 3rd world.
 

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you dudes that look at everything through both a feminism filter and a victim filter are just helpless little btches aren't you

"waaahhh nobody's running marathons for prostrate cancer, nobody loves me waahhhh"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ready123 said:
you dudes that look at everything through both a feminism filter and a victim filter are just helpless little btches aren't you
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a valid point.
 

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ready123 said:
you dudes that look at everything through both a feminism filter and a victim filter are just helpless little btches aren't you

"waaahhh nobody's running marathons for prostrate cancer, nobody loves me waahhhh"
This.

If you were to look, I'm sure there'd be plenty of fund-raisers for prostrate cancer. There are here, although testicle cancer does get a lot more funding. In my school we had quite a large event to raise awareness of testicle cancer.
 

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That's because of the nature of prostate and it's cancer. Trust me, if testicular cancer was more common there would be as much fund raisers for it as there are for breast cancer.

Breast cancer is the most common type of cancer for women and the woman's breasts are also part of who a woman are. Do you even know where your prostate is or what it even does? If you lost your prostate would you feel as if you were a lesser man?

In men prostate cancer is very common, but the risk of death is very low. Also it's primarily an old man's disease. The average age of diagnosis is 70, the average life expectancy for men is 75. In many cases the cancer isn't treated simply because it the treatment may actually shorten the mans life and cause much discomfort in his later years.
 

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Prostate cancer is pretty easy to treat if it caught early and is tested for regularly, so that may have something to do with it. But again, we're men so don't expect to be protected as much. The guys 70 and up faced stuff that most of us haven't even dreamed of and they aren't crying about it. We want so much to slam feminsim that I think guys forget the only way to convince people that some of it is a bunch of crap is just to be silent and strong about how you face things. The older guys knew that, so it's time we learned.
 
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