How come no one’s written an article about social media?

[nicksaiz65]

I feel like that’s one of the things lacking from this site. For the younger crowd, it’s definitely important. I don’t think you can really argue that. Dudes and girls are just obsessed with it, and I’d say social media is critical to a good game these days.

 

[Macaframalama]

I feel like that’s one of the things lacking from this site. For the younger crowd, it’s definitely important. I don’t think you can really argue that. Dudes and girls are just obsessed with it, and I’d say social media is critical to a good game these days.

Don't know of any free articles out there, but "Text appeal" is a really good read. @Glassguy has good advice on social media and texting and I use FB/Messenger quite a bit myself. Text appeal is worth the money if you're looking for an overall comprehensive take on it.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Don't know of any free articles out there, but "Text appeal" is a really good read. @Glassguy has good advice on social media and texting and I use FB/Messenger quite a bit myself. Text appeal is worth the money if you're looking for an overall comprehensive take on it.

Haven’t heard of that book. Maybe I’ll check it out once I finish what I’m reading now

 

[nicksaiz65]

It really isn't, unless a woman wants to keep you in a holding pattern.

Girls that like you more than it just nag you about it later.

And some women seriously aren't concerned. Those are the ones usually with actual interesting hobbies.

I have lost out because of it. But every guy has a unique level of bullsh1t that he's not willing to exceed for pvssy. And mine is snapchat and the like.

Just curious, why are a lot of you all against social media? I used to think it was stupid at first too. But as I started realizing it’s ubiquitous in this generation, I got an account and got over 1000 followers. And was posting lots of cool Snapchat stories too. Makes things easier imo

 

[sosousage]

It really isn't, unless a woman wants to keep you in a holding pattern.

Girls that like you more than it just nag you about it later.

And some women seriously aren't concerned. Those are the ones usually with actual interesting hobbies.

I have lost out because of it. But every guy has a unique level of bullsh1t that he's not willing to exceed for pvssy. And mine is snapchat and the like.

i will breed muscles and then i will conguer social media. ill get likes from homosexuals because men on internet dating are so horny that they will enter any link in profile bio (including IG) and they will like/follow it. then I will put some HQ photos there to get to know social media addicted women (majority)

 

[nicksaiz65]

i will breed muscles and then i will conguer social media. ill get likes from homosexuals because men on internet dating are so horny that they will enter any link in profile bio (including IG) and they will like/follow it. then I will put some HQ photos there to get to know social media addicted women (majority)

Wait what? Lol

 

[Who Dares Win]

Social media like facebook simply multiplies whatever you are already in terms of image.

If you are a goodlooking guy with an interesting life and plenty of friends then you will get even more rewards in terms of attention and opportunities.

If you are an average looking joe with an average life not only you wont get any bonus but there is a good chance girls will find a reason to disqualify you.

Its not any different than the height thing, what girls consider average is not the average of males but the average of guys tall enough to be tall.

If your look, lifestyle and social skills are good enough to score you in real life then social will help but you dont really need them.
On the other side if you're not that hot nor your life style gets you pvssy, hardly social media will do much.

Not to sound boring but the best bet is always self improvement, so again hit the gym, fix your diet, grow professionally and economically..no shortcut to success awfully.

I'm talking from a 30+ point of view, surely for teens and early 20s is different and probably somehow necessary.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Social media like facebook simply multiplies whatever you are already in terms of image.

If you are a goodlooking guy with an interesting life and plenty of friends then you will get even more rewards in terms of attention and opportunities.

If you are an average looking joe with an average life not only you wont get any bonus but there is a good chance girls will find a reason to disqualify you.

Its not any different than the height thing, what girls consider average is not the average of males but the average of guys tall enough to be tall.

If your look, lifestyle and social skills are good enough to score you in real life then social will help but you dont really need them.
On the other side if you're not that hot nor your life style gets you pvssy, hardly social media will do much.

Not to sound boring but the best bet is always self improvement, so again hit the gym, fix your diet, grow professionally and economically..no shortcut to success awfully.

I'm talking from a 30+ point of view, surely for teens and early 20s is different and probably somehow necessary.

Totally agree with this actually, seems like the solution to most problems is self improvement. I’d say social media is good for connecting with people and enhancing(or even faking) an image to get that social proof. Really annoying how people are obsessed with it though

 

[Desdinova]

If anyone points me to a good post about texting and social media, I'll be more than happy to add it to the DJ Bible. I haven't seen anything decent yet though. Most of what I've seen is just an extension of what you can do in real life.

 

[Macaframalama]

i will breed muscles and then i will conguer social media. ill get likes from homosexuals because men on internet dating are so horny that they will enter any link in profile bio (including IG) and they will like/follow it. then I will put some HQ photos there to get to know social media addicted women (majority)

This is funny chit. CTFU!

 

[fastlife]

Pretty ambivalent about social media. I'm sure it can be a useful tool and I wouldn't discourage anyone from developing that skill set, but it just isn't all that necessary if you are good at cold approach. One, if a girl likes you then that'll color all her perceptions of you--Oh, he never posts. That must mean he's out doing cool stuff. Two, I don't even give girls my real name until I've had long enough to see what they're about; definitely don't want potentially malevolent randos having that much access to my personal life. Three, if I'm doing cool stuff the last thing I want to do is stop what I'm doing and film it. Four, IME the highest quality girls, or at least the kind I most enjoy spending time with, aren't super involved in social media. Five, most of the girls I've slept with aren't and never were on any my SM; most of the girls I've added on SM I've never slept with.

That could be that my internet presence just sucks, but more likely SM gives them enough 'security' that they have me on their roster or locked down as a potential source of validation and makes sleeping with me less urgent.

Also, here is where frame comes into play. Do you like social media? Would you post sh1t if perceived potential pvssy wasn't on the table. If so, go for it--that's a perfectly legitimate frame. If not, don't. Do what's congruent to you. Personally, I'm more of the aloof, mysterious type--that's a natural part of my personality and so my game is tailored to that and I can make it work for me. If you're more of a friendly, social type, then adding someone on IG and inviting them to a social event would be congruent to that.

That said, in 2018 if you're dealing with late teen, early 20's girls, then you need to be on Snapchat. It has a super ephemeral quality that helps girls let their guards down due to perceived anonymity & if she has a BF it is by far the preferred means of communication--no paper trails. Personally, I always get the # and she'll let me know (usually some bullsh1t excuse about switching phone companies or w/e) if I need to use that avenue.

 

[sosousage]

This is funny chit. CTFU!

But i wasnt joking. Just as chicks are promoting their ig on OLD, you can do same if you set account to homosexual.

I was even offered money for sex from men.

Too bad women usually dont want to know me.

Women I encounter on dating sites are the exactly type i read about in red pill articles. They, because of options, start to ask disguised money related questions.

When i say i study robotics they start replying quicker because i might be rich when i finish.

Of course i dont study it.

I wonder how can you not make use of being rich on old @RichardTheFrog

 

[speed dawg]

I feel like that’s one of the things lacking from this site. For the younger crowd, it’s definitely important. I don’t think you can really argue that. Dudes and girls are just obsessed with it, and I’d say social media is critical to a good game these days.

Social media is just that....media. It is a tool for communication. The way you communicate is still the same. If you are on social media all day, it's the same as not having a life. So, if a question comes up like, "How do I seem busy when the facebook feed shows me making 100 posts per day?", well, get off facebook. Unless it's for a money-making venture, why should you be on it so much anyway? Twitter is a little different animal to me, because you can create a newsfeed out of it. I don't use it to communicate.

Instagram, Pinterest and all that....that just seems to be used by people in the party stage. I stay away from that sh*t, and limit my facebook time. I don't use facebook messenger at all, why should I, unless it's a utility, like a class reunion communication ring or something. Why not just text?

There's been a million posts on text game and guess what, it's just like the rest.

 

[Macaframalama]

But i wasnt joking. Just as chicks are promoting their ig on OLD, you can do same if you set account to homosexual.

I was even offered money for sex from men.

Too bad women usually dont want to know me.

Women I encounter on dating sites are the exactly type i read about in red pill articles. They, because of options, start to ask disguised money related questions.

When i say i study robotics they start replying quicker because i might be rich when i finish.

Of course i dont study it.

I wonder how can you not make use of being rich on old @RichardTheFrog

Oh, my bad. I thought you were joking, but I don't doubt it one bit.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Pretty ambivalent about social media. I'm sure it can be a useful tool and I wouldn't discourage anyone from developing that skill set, but it just isn't all that necessary if you are good at cold approach. One, if a girl likes you then that'll color all her perceptions of you--Oh, he never posts. That must mean he's out doing cool stuff. Two, I don't even give girls my real name until I've had long enough to see what they're about; definitely don't want potentially malevolent randos having that much access to my personal life. Three, if I'm doing cool stuff the last thing I want to do is stop what I'm doing and film it. Four, IME the highest quality girls, or at least the kind I most enjoy spending time with, aren't super involved in social media. Five, most of the girls I've slept with aren't and never were on any my SM; most of the girls I've added on SM I've never slept with.

That could be that my internet presence just sucks, but more likely SM gives them enough 'security' that they have me on their roster or locked down as a potential source of validation and makes sleeping with me less urgent.

Also, here is where frame comes into play. Do you like social media? Would you post sh1t if perceived potential pvssy wasn't on the table. If so, go for it--that's a perfectly legitimate frame. If not, don't. Do what's congruent to you. Personally, I'm more of the aloof, mysterious type--that's a natural part of my personality and so my game is tailored to that and I can make it work for me. If you're more of a friendly, social type, then adding someone on IG and inviting them to a social event would be congruent to that.

That said, in 2018 if you're dealing with late teen, early 20's girls, then you need to be on Snapchat. It has a super ephemeral quality that helps girls let their guards down due to perceived anonymity & if she has a BF it is by far the preferred means of communication--no paper trails. Personally, I always get the # and she'll let me know (usually some bullsh1t excuse about switching phone companies or w/e) if I need to use that avenue.

Yeah I’d say I enjoy social media! In the long run it’s a time waster, but I still like it. I post to Instagram about once a month and Snapchat is one of the main ways I communicate with people.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Social media is just that....media. It is a tool for communication. The way you communicate is still the same. If you are on social media all day, it's the same as not having a life. So, if a question comes up like, "How do I seem busy when the facebook feed shows me making 100 posts per day?", well, get off facebook. Unless it's for a money-making venture, why should you be on it so much anyway? Twitter is a little different animal to me, because you can create a newsfeed out of it. I don't use it to communicate.

Instagram, Pinterest and all that....that just seems to be used by people in the party stage. I stay away from that sh*t, and limit my facebook time. I don't use facebook messenger at all, why should I, unless it's a utility, like a class reunion communication ring or something. Why not just text?

There's been a million posts on text game and guess what, it's just like the rest.

Makes sense. And yeah I agree with you. At the end of the day Instagram is just a bunch of dudes and hoes trying to see who can look the best and get the most validation. The funny videos and memes are pretty cool tho

 

[Macaframalama]

Yea, as @speed dawg said, it's just a tool. I don't use IG or snap. FB/Messenger I use to meet chic's outside my circle, that I wouldn't otherwise run into and to send out mass party invites. It's just a supplement. I try to meet ppl, wherever I go, but I also work a blue collar job 5 days a week and weight train 4-5 days a week at home. By the time I get done with that, cook, clean, shower and get my mutts taken care of it's already 8-830 at night. I'm a commercial/residential painter, so if I don't have another project going, time is all I got and it sure beats watching paint dry.

 

[Macaframalama]

I'll tell you another way it is useful. Went on a date last Tuesday. Date went excellent. Lots of touching and kiss closed with an ass grab and she sent me a text saying that she had fun, thought it went well, and wanted to meet again, blah blah. I replied saying i had fun as well and I'll see how everything goes with work. I dropped communication and she sent me a text a little after midnight Thursday saying "Don't text again, I'm good". Scroll her FB and she's posted several threads on her wall talking... "A man will walk over a good woman to get to a hore" and some chit about no second chances, cackle, cackle. I think she saw that I had added 3 female friends on FB on Wednesday. Dodged a bullet on that one. If a b!tch is batchit cray, they will pay no mind about posting that craziness on their FB wall. It also reminded me of how potent this thing of ours is. When, she saw that I wasn't going to blow her up like her other L7's her insecurities got to her and she crumbled. Chit, I can do bad all by myself.