how come in high school people can crush on a single person for YEARS?

[garruk]

how come in high school girls will crush on a single guy for like AGES. but in the real world, girls can get over guys they are interested in within days?


anyone else ever think of this? just something i thought was interesting.

somehting to do with maturity?

 

[f283000]

keyword is "high school girls"

 

[Scion]

I had a crush on one girl for years. Mind you most of that time she was in relationships and then moved away for a few years. I only stopped having a crush on her when I became disgusted by her immaturity.

 

[Tesl]

This isn't just unique to girls, its guys too. Guys are possibly worse for this, even.

I'd say its just a maturity thing. A first crush is harder to get over because you feel feelings you have never had before. Once its happened a few times in life, it gets a whole lot easier.

 

[garruk]

This isn't just unique to girls, its guys too. Guys are possibly worse for this, even.

I'd say its just a maturity thing. A first crush is harder to get over because you feel feelings you have never had before. Once its happened a few times in life, it gets a whole lot easier.

ahhh, this is probably it