"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

how come in high school people can crush on a single person for YEARS?

G

garruk

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Messages
437
Reaction score
7
how come in high school girls will crush on a single guy for like AGES. but in the real world, girls can get over guys they are interested in within days?


anyone else ever think of this? just something i thought was interesting.

somehting to do with maturity?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

S

Scion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2009
Messages
566
Reaction score
7
I had a crush on one girl for years. Mind you most of that time she was in relationships and then moved away for a few years. I only stopped having a crush on her when I became disgusted by her immaturity.
 
T

Tesl

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2010
Messages
281
Reaction score
16
This isn't just unique to girls, its guys too. Guys are possibly worse for this, even.

I'd say its just a maturity thing. A first crush is harder to get over because you feel feelings you have never had before. Once its happened a few times in life, it gets a whole lot easier.
 
G

garruk

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Messages
437
Reaction score
7
Tesl said:
This isn't just unique to girls, its guys too. Guys are possibly worse for this, even.

I'd say its just a maturity thing. A first crush is harder to get over because you feel feelings you have never had before. Once its happened a few times in life, it gets a whole lot easier.
Click to expand...
ahhh, this is probably it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top