"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How come Freud never figured out women?

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There's a couple of things we know about this guy. One is that he's the father of modern psychology and from what we know is that his women patients would fall in love with him. Gives me a reason to Major in Psychology:crazy: yea right. Do you guys think that his explanation of ego and super ego have some merit and some sort of use when attracting HB9's ?

Personally I believe that the psych major's of the world are at a loss when attracting HB9's of the world.

Robert Greene has a better explanation of how people work dealing with different personalities like the Dandee, The Star, etc. Knowing what type of girl you are dealing with definitely puts you a couple of steps ahead in affairs of the heart. This can be subject of debate.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whether Freud's psychology is accurate or not, it's all a lot of chick crack which is why women love him
 

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Freud was a recognized authority who talked to people about their personal problems, using methods that, at the time, were considered "mystical." The kind of stuff Ross Jeffries called "Chick crack."

Just by walking into his office, people felt trust, rapport and his authority, as well as walking into a world where normal "rules" don't really apply.

Even the biggest, clueless beta could get laid like a rock star in those circumstances.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

If you wanna know about somebody who REALLY tickled the ladies' funny bones, then check out Rasputin.

When it comes to making the girls' panties wet, that guy could run circles around Freud.
 

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So can Justin Bieber and many others, who really can't do anything but sing, ferchrissakes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The short answer that that academic prowess is only a part of the equation. Plus the guy didn't devote part of his life to studying any specific goal regarding women; "understanding women" isn't exactly a tangible goal to work towards.
 

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Vice said:
The short answer that that academic prowess is only a part of the equation. Plus the guy didn't devote part of his life to studying any specific goal regarding women; "understanding women" isn't exactly a tangible goal to work towards.
True. I'm just saying the guy still had game for being a borderline red pill ideology doctor. The ladies who were his patients would gobble up all his jargon and fall in love with this guy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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