"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How come Freud never figured out women?

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There's a couple of things we know about this guy. One is that he's the father of modern psychology and from what we know is that his women patients would fall in love with him. Gives me a reason to Major in Psychology:crazy: yea right. Do you guys think that his explanation of ego and super ego have some merit and some sort of use when attracting HB9's ?

Personally I believe that the psych major's of the world are at a loss when attracting HB9's of the world.

Robert Greene has a better explanation of how people work dealing with different personalities like the Dandee, The Star, etc. Knowing what type of girl you are dealing with definitely puts you a couple of steps ahead in affairs of the heart. This can be subject of debate.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Whether Freud's psychology is accurate or not, it's all a lot of chick crack which is why women love him
 

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Freud was a recognized authority who talked to people about their personal problems, using methods that, at the time, were considered "mystical." The kind of stuff Ross Jeffries called "Chick crack."

Just by walking into his office, people felt trust, rapport and his authority, as well as walking into a world where normal "rules" don't really apply.

Even the biggest, clueless beta could get laid like a rock star in those circumstances.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

If you wanna know about somebody who REALLY tickled the ladies' funny bones, then check out Rasputin.

When it comes to making the girls' panties wet, that guy could run circles around Freud.
 

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So can Justin Bieber and many others, who really can't do anything but sing, ferchrissakes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The short answer that that academic prowess is only a part of the equation. Plus the guy didn't devote part of his life to studying any specific goal regarding women; "understanding women" isn't exactly a tangible goal to work towards.
 

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Vice said:
The short answer that that academic prowess is only a part of the equation. Plus the guy didn't devote part of his life to studying any specific goal regarding women; "understanding women" isn't exactly a tangible goal to work towards.
True. I'm just saying the guy still had game for being a borderline red pill ideology doctor. The ladies who were his patients would gobble up all his jargon and fall in love with this guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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