I had a recent situation where I thought a girl was playing me and stuff. We setup a date, I have to take the train and sit on it for about an hour to see her, so that morning I do a checkup whether the date goes through. No response, no prob sh*t happens, I call in the afternoon she doesn't pickup the phone. Its getting late and I start walking to the train, calling her again, thinking she was probebly at school and busy, again she doesn't pickup. Now I'm standing infront of the train to go to her, one final call, she doesn't pickup so I return home (I'm not sitting in a train for an hour for nothing). Stopped all communication with her. She txtsmessages me 3 days later, with another number that her phone broke and that she couldn't pickup.
My reaction: Nothing whatsoever, I didn't call or txt back.
2 Days later she keeps txting me saying she's really sorry, couldn't help it and still hopes to see me again and stuff. -> here's where I started txting back. She kept trying to come back and keep contacting me. In a way the situation seemed very possible, next time I saw her she also use 2 cell phones: one had all her friends numbers including mine, the other one was to read and send recieved messages.
In conclusion: Once I see/think their playing me I bail. If they come back I consider the situation and think about giving second chances... I've had women who played me who give alot of excuses aswell and I've had women who got all argumentative about it and were saying the truth (thought I alwayse ended up bad anyway, women who like you don't get super defensive when you confront them). Like in antidump: treat em all the same, ye you lose some good ones, but atleast you keep yourself from getting alot more!
Don't know how it will work out with this chick, we "might" have a date next week, we'll see i guess...
