"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How Careful Are You?

Cowhead418

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Just to preface this, I am sixteen years old and am going to be a Junior in High School. I have had only one girlfriend and have yet to engage in any sexual activity. Because of strict parents and my young age, I haven't planned on stepping up "my game" until college. Like many other guys, I had dreams of banging hot chick after hot chick. But my view has now changed.

Unfortunately, in today's world, STDs are much more common now than in the past, and I have read some pretty scary statistics. The most common STD seems to be genital warts, or HPV. I've read that between 80-90% of college females have this disease! :nervous: That is huge! Now I don't know if should pursue a sexually active lifestyle. Being a DJ today is much more dangerous than it was many years ago.

So, how careful are you? Do you attempt any kind of background search on your targets? I've read that if someone has had more than 10 sex partners, then there is an extremely high possibility that they have herpes or HPV. I certainly don't want these diseases, and though they aren't life-threatening they would be a pain in the ass. I also don't want my life to ruined by contracting HIV either. But how can a DJ lifestyle be achieved while also being STD-free? Condoms don't protect against HPV or herpes and aren't 100% effective against other STDs. I know you can have tests to determine who is free of disease, but these are expensive and would almost certainly ruin the mood while significantly lowering the chance of getting laid.:down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cowhead418

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natralguy said:
that is also one of my concerns...........
can you get it by going down on a girl?
By going down on a girl, you wouldn't get genital warts or herpes, but you would get oral herpes, with sores on your mouth.
 

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it all depends on where you live and who you fvck.

i'd be more concerned about getting her pregnet, then getting an std.
 

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spider_007 said:
it all depends on where you live and who you fvck.

i'd be more concerned about getting her pregnet, then getting an std.
Explain your reasoning for this. Contracting HIV would be a hell of a lot scarier than getting her pregnant. Of course, the HIV virus is hardly common, but my point still stands.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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let me put it this way.

I've been picking up hookers once a week since i was 19. I'm 23 now. 52 weeks a year, times 4 years, equals 208. lets just say that some of those ware "repeats", that leaves about 150 different women that i fvcked in last 4 years. Now, these aren't regular women, they are "HIGH RISK". They are street walking crack *****s and ex strippers most of the time.

I've only two times gotten an STD [clymedia (speling?)]. THAT'S ALL!!!!!

now if you are living somewhere in Africa, where every 2 out of 3 people have AIDS then that is a different storry all together.


Getting a Girll pregnet is usually an end of a mans free life (that's unless your like "frivious" and you have no life.....in which case you can be like him and keep on knocking them up)


so it all depends on who you go after. If you go after "good gurls" or if you go after promiscuous (sp?) sluts.
 
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