"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How can you tell if they are serious ?

HuggyBear

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What are the signs that a woman shows that she really likes you and is not playing you for attention or to boost there ego? Besides them letting you have sex/kiss you. Because I know a married woman who wants this guy badly but she will not make a move or let him make a move. But she plans on dating him if she gets divorced. And I met this woman with a boyfriend a couple years ago and she came out and told me she was crazy about me and everything but would not let me even kiss her. But she end up breaking up with her boyfriend and we dated for 8 months. So I know there are woman out there who really like somebody without letting them make a move.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Troubles

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I think when she try to find out a lot of your background, your history, family....etc.
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Introduce you to their mates and they'll try to observe every movenment of you.
 

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Originally posted by HuggyBear
What are the signs that a woman shows that she really likes you and is not playing you for attention or to boost there ego? Besides them letting you have sex/kiss you.
Nope, even kissing/sex doesn't qualify and I know this from several personal experiences. Unfortunetly I don't have an answer for you.
 

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It's simple really...

If she is REALLY interested in you, then she WILL make a move or let you make one. It doesn't matter if she says she's interested. It's hard for me to explain though.. Basically if they're really interested and do the "No Moves" thing then they will break up with whoever and be with you if its what they really want.. Dont hold your breath though because you will never know until it happens. Only time will tell.
 

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exp'd DJs will tell you : you can't tell. You really can't, women are masters of acting - don't you know it already? They are willing to freak with you, let you kiss them on the lips, and yet the next time you see them they will just tell you "It was just fun" - This is a vague and dumb question IMHO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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