"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How can you tell if they are serious ?

HuggyBear

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What are the signs that a woman shows that she really likes you and is not playing you for attention or to boost there ego? Besides them letting you have sex/kiss you. Because I know a married woman who wants this guy badly but she will not make a move or let him make a move. But she plans on dating him if she gets divorced. And I met this woman with a boyfriend a couple years ago and she came out and told me she was crazy about me and everything but would not let me even kiss her. But she end up breaking up with her boyfriend and we dated for 8 months. So I know there are woman out there who really like somebody without letting them make a move.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Troubles

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I think when she try to find out a lot of your background, your history, family....etc.
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Introduce you to their mates and they'll try to observe every movenment of you.
 

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Originally posted by HuggyBear
What are the signs that a woman shows that she really likes you and is not playing you for attention or to boost there ego? Besides them letting you have sex/kiss you.
Nope, even kissing/sex doesn't qualify and I know this from several personal experiences. Unfortunetly I don't have an answer for you.
 

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It's simple really...

If she is REALLY interested in you, then she WILL make a move or let you make one. It doesn't matter if she says she's interested. It's hard for me to explain though.. Basically if they're really interested and do the "No Moves" thing then they will break up with whoever and be with you if its what they really want.. Dont hold your breath though because you will never know until it happens. Only time will tell.
 

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exp'd DJs will tell you : you can't tell. You really can't, women are masters of acting - don't you know it already? They are willing to freak with you, let you kiss them on the lips, and yet the next time you see them they will just tell you "It was just fun" - This is a vague and dumb question IMHO.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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