"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How can you tell if she want more than friendship?

TheOneForce

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Wzup ppl,

This girl and i are real cool, but im not sure if she wants to be just friends or if she wants me to make a move on her. We go to the same college and are both freshmen. We're real close, we hangout almost every other day and have gotten close with each other but nothin sexual (Like faces so close are noses touch and holding hand with each other for a few seconds).

My question is how do you know if a female friends wants to do things with you or if its just her being friendly to you?:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheStudent

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wow... even i...not very experiecne think can answer this question...

i htink you need to ask her out.. period.. that the only way ur know...i was in the same situaiton and i ask her out..boom she said yest... been going out..hahahaah lol.
 

anointed

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wrong. you dont verbalize ****.. verblizing kills sexual tension.. and thats the worst thing you can ever do..you get into the holding hands thing and then you escalate and then you sack up and kiss her and see how far u can push it after that... crunch time man.. do it via kiss test or whatever.. you gotta go through it.. Its the ONLY way you will know..

THEN invite her to your place for a movie... its simple in words hehe
 

Kings_royalty

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get into the holding hands thing and then you escalate and then you sack up and kiss her and see how far u can push it after that... crunch time man.. do it via kiss test or whatever.. you gotta go through it.. Its the ONLY way you will know..


I totally agree.


(Like faces so close are noses touch and holding hand with each other for a few seconds).


Come on bro, what more do you need? Does she have to do EVERYTHING? Take the lead already.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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