"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How can you tell if she want more than friendship?

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Wzup ppl,

This girl and i are real cool, but im not sure if she wants to be just friends or if she wants me to make a move on her. We go to the same college and are both freshmen. We're real close, we hangout almost every other day and have gotten close with each other but nothin sexual (Like faces so close are noses touch and holding hand with each other for a few seconds).

My question is how do you know if a female friends wants to do things with you or if its just her being friendly to you?:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wow... even i...not very experiecne think can answer this question...

i htink you need to ask her out.. period.. that the only way ur know...i was in the same situaiton and i ask her out..boom she said yest... been going out..hahahaah lol.
 
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wrong. you dont verbalize ****.. verblizing kills sexual tension.. and thats the worst thing you can ever do..you get into the holding hands thing and then you escalate and then you sack up and kiss her and see how far u can push it after that... crunch time man.. do it via kiss test or whatever.. you gotta go through it.. Its the ONLY way you will know..

THEN invite her to your place for a movie... its simple in words hehe
 
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get into the holding hands thing and then you escalate and then you sack up and kiss her and see how far u can push it after that... crunch time man.. do it via kiss test or whatever.. you gotta go through it.. Its the ONLY way you will know..


I totally agree.


(Like faces so close are noses touch and holding hand with each other for a few seconds).


Come on bro, what more do you need? Does she have to do EVERYTHING? Take the lead already.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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