"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can you tell if she want more than friendship?

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Wzup ppl,

This girl and i are real cool, but im not sure if she wants to be just friends or if she wants me to make a move on her. We go to the same college and are both freshmen. We're real close, we hangout almost every other day and have gotten close with each other but nothin sexual (Like faces so close are noses touch and holding hand with each other for a few seconds).

My question is how do you know if a female friends wants to do things with you or if its just her being friendly to you?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wow... even i...not very experiecne think can answer this question...

i htink you need to ask her out.. period.. that the only way ur know...i was in the same situaiton and i ask her out..boom she said yest... been going out..hahahaah lol.
 
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wrong. you dont verbalize ****.. verblizing kills sexual tension.. and thats the worst thing you can ever do..you get into the holding hands thing and then you escalate and then you sack up and kiss her and see how far u can push it after that... crunch time man.. do it via kiss test or whatever.. you gotta go through it.. Its the ONLY way you will know..

THEN invite her to your place for a movie... its simple in words hehe
 
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get into the holding hands thing and then you escalate and then you sack up and kiss her and see how far u can push it after that... crunch time man.. do it via kiss test or whatever.. you gotta go through it.. Its the ONLY way you will know..


I totally agree.


(Like faces so close are noses touch and holding hand with each other for a few seconds).


Come on bro, what more do you need? Does she have to do EVERYTHING? Take the lead already.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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