"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How can you compete

wt_firefighter

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Here's the story, I was watching my local news and they were showing college volleyball highlights. I saw this one girl she looked cute. I got onto their website and found here. From the picture she is a very pretty girl and they give a little bio of the players and from that she seemed pretty chill. I also got on facebook to see if she was on there and she is. Here's my problem, she has a lot of friends that are on the football team. And in this town people ride the football teams ****s like no other. There is a home volleyball game this friday that I was thinking about going to but how can one compete with people that have an advantage over you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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everywomanshero

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I don't think this heirarchial view of social stratification is healthy man. She's just a chick, and you're just a dude. Maybe some people will be so closed minded that they won't allow a connection to be made, and that's their choices to make. However, I don't think the majority of people fall into this category. I make connections with people everyday and I'm definitely not a football player. In fact at my age, I think it would be a little strange if I played football unless I was a pro or something.
 

SharinganUser

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Sounds like you are stalking this girl.

You don't compete, you go for it and move on immediately if you get rejected.
 
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