"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wt_firefighter

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Here's the story, I was watching my local news and they were showing college volleyball highlights. I saw this one girl she looked cute. I got onto their website and found here. From the picture she is a very pretty girl and they give a little bio of the players and from that she seemed pretty chill. I also got on facebook to see if she was on there and she is. Here's my problem, she has a lot of friends that are on the football team. And in this town people ride the football teams ****s like no other. There is a home volleyball game this friday that I was thinking about going to but how can one compete with people that have an advantage over you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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everywomanshero

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I don't think this heirarchial view of social stratification is healthy man. She's just a chick, and you're just a dude. Maybe some people will be so closed minded that they won't allow a connection to be made, and that's their choices to make. However, I don't think the majority of people fall into this category. I make connections with people everyday and I'm definitely not a football player. In fact at my age, I think it would be a little strange if I played football unless I was a pro or something.
 
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Sounds like you are stalking this girl.

You don't compete, you go for it and move on immediately if you get rejected.
 
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