"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can you be sure your girl is faithful?

Greasy Pig

Greasy Pig

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I've screwed this chick a couple of times but she lives with her boyfriend.
One time she took me out the back of a club and I banged her against a dumpster. Real classy.
The most recent time, we were at a party and she took me to the neighbour's yard and I bent her over the fence.
I'm not big noting myself. It's just that I'm supposed to meet her at a hotel on Tuesday and for the past week, she's been posting stuff on facebook about how much she loves her BF and photos of them together with love hearts in the captions and sh1t.
I have some concerns about screwing another man's girl - some moral, some regarding my personal safety should he find out.
But my main concern is that she can publicly profess such devotion and then email me about fvcking her and texting nude photos.
I'm worried that could be me one day. Looking at all this sh1t on facebook and thinking she's totally into me and that the relationship is definitely secure but really, she's getting banged against a fvcking dumpster behind some nightclub.
Am I alone in being concerned about women's duplicity? I mean, she's smoking my pole and then going home and playing the dutiful girlfriend.
It makes me really worried about all my future relationships and how I'll ever be able to trust any woman.
After all, she's proven that all you need to cheat is some dude with a hard d1ck and only a small amount of privacy.
It's a damn worry!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To answer your question, you can't.
You just have to choose wisely, and believe.
If you can never trust to some degree in a relationship, it will never truly work for you.

Sad part is, if you want to trust and relax, you're vulnerable.

I think if I wanted a woman I could trust, I would pursue one that takes me a long time to boink.
The paradox is, is I'm not patient enough to wait very long for it.


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zekko

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Greasy Pig said:
One time she took me out the back of a club and I banged her against a dumpster. Real classy.
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Clue #1: If your girl is into a lifestyle which includes spending a lot of time at the club, she's probably not being faithful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm sure there are signs that this guy is choosing to ignore. Sure, there will always be women who are good at making a "nice" appearance. But I gotta believe that much of the time, there are signs.
 
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zekko said:
Clue #1: If your girl is into a lifestyle which includes spending a lot of time at the club, she's probably not being faithful.
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Exactly!

I bet if you look at this chick there are red flags all over the place.

Knowing whether your girl is faithful starts with you. Guys are so stupid when it comes to this stuff. They attract flashy women using their money and flash and then wonder why they are having problems later.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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