"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How can you be sure your girl is faithful?

Greasy Pig

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I've screwed this chick a couple of times but she lives with her boyfriend.
One time she took me out the back of a club and I banged her against a dumpster. Real classy.
The most recent time, we were at a party and she took me to the neighbour's yard and I bent her over the fence.
I'm not big noting myself. It's just that I'm supposed to meet her at a hotel on Tuesday and for the past week, she's been posting stuff on facebook about how much she loves her BF and photos of them together with love hearts in the captions and sh1t.
I have some concerns about screwing another man's girl - some moral, some regarding my personal safety should he find out.
But my main concern is that she can publicly profess such devotion and then email me about fvcking her and texting nude photos.
I'm worried that could be me one day. Looking at all this sh1t on facebook and thinking she's totally into me and that the relationship is definitely secure but really, she's getting banged against a fvcking dumpster behind some nightclub.
Am I alone in being concerned about women's duplicity? I mean, she's smoking my pole and then going home and playing the dutiful girlfriend.
It makes me really worried about all my future relationships and how I'll ever be able to trust any woman.
After all, she's proven that all you need to cheat is some dude with a hard d1ck and only a small amount of privacy.
It's a damn worry!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To answer your question, you can't.
You just have to choose wisely, and believe.
If you can never trust to some degree in a relationship, it will never truly work for you.

Sad part is, if you want to trust and relax, you're vulnerable.

I think if I wanted a woman I could trust, I would pursue one that takes me a long time to boink.
The paradox is, is I'm not patient enough to wait very long for it.


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zekko

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Greasy Pig said:
One time she took me out the back of a club and I banged her against a dumpster. Real classy.
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Clue #1: If your girl is into a lifestyle which includes spending a lot of time at the club, she's probably not being faithful.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm sure there are signs that this guy is choosing to ignore. Sure, there will always be women who are good at making a "nice" appearance. But I gotta believe that much of the time, there are signs.
 
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zekko said:
Clue #1: If your girl is into a lifestyle which includes spending a lot of time at the club, she's probably not being faithful.
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Exactly!

I bet if you look at this chick there are red flags all over the place.

Knowing whether your girl is faithful starts with you. Guys are so stupid when it comes to this stuff. They attract flashy women using their money and flash and then wonder why they are having problems later.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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