"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how can u tell if girl is single?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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Dont worry whether she's single or not if she's alone. Do what you do as a DJ naturally to all women. A women will often let you know kindly that she's married, has a bf, is a lesbian, has herpes..etc..

if she's holding hands next to a 6'6" 350lb lineman looking guy...i'd take a wild guess and assume its her bf:D
 

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When you make EC, if she blinked exactly 4.2 times with her left eye, she's single.
 

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Unless she has a wedding ring on, or is intimate with some other guy at the time, presume she's single and approach.
 

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
When you make EC, if she blinked exactly 4.2 times with her left eye, she's single.
Wtf? lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mystic03

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Make your move, if she has one or if she isn't interested she will tell you she has one.
 

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question and answer

eye contact doest work!
kino doesnt work!

you just need to ask her if she is single or not.
nothing to loose man.

PS:
like me... A girl she keep flirting with me like hell (kino EC all of that Sh|t) (checking me out jealous if i am out talking with girls) and i ask her if she is single and she replied .....( I was but i have a BF)

why would she say I WAS????guys do i have a chance in this kind of word I WAS>...probably she is still interested in me or do i have to just move on???????

To THINK ABOUT IT....It's her loss becuase she's a 6.5 and i have seen a HB 8-9 better looking than her that have interest on me.

well i learn another experience act fast always if u know a girl have an interest on you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Don't even THINK About that question, JUST PLOW THROUGH!
Yeah, who the fvck cares unless you're looking for a relationship? Trust me, if a woman is happily 'with' someone, she'll let you know. If she's unhappily with someone, she'll still let you know, but not right away. In that situation if you play your cards right, she'll still be interested in you even though she's not single.
 

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bro.. i think the real question is why do you care if a girl is single.. if you a dj i shouldnt mean a thang... PeaCe
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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