She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Beyond recommending that you read some inner game material, I don't think anyone can answer that question for you. Your demons and issues are unique to you, and only you know the exact path to overcoming them.
You start living the good life, my friend
.I guess you're right, my demons are unique to me, but I would still need ways (if possible) to figure out exactly what they are and how to change that. I never did anything similar, so this is all new to me.Sean O said:Beyond recommending that you read some inner game material, I don't think anyone can answer that question for you. Your demons and issues are unique to you, and only you know the exact path to overcoming them.
You start living the good life, my friend