I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Beyond recommending that you read some inner game material, I don't think anyone can answer that question for you. Your demons and issues are unique to you, and only you know the exact path to overcoming them.
You start living the good life, my friend
.I guess you're right, my demons are unique to me, but I would still need ways (if possible) to figure out exactly what they are and how to change that. I never did anything similar, so this is all new to me.Sean O said:Beyond recommending that you read some inner game material, I don't think anyone can answer that question for you. Your demons and issues are unique to you, and only you know the exact path to overcoming them.
You start living the good life, my friend