"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How can one act in a case when woman disrespected you?

sosumba

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The peak was when she teased me that I will not be a good father. In that moment i shouldve throw her the **** out of my apartment and she would back on 4. But I didnt. Respect is everything.
I wouldn't be able to ignore that shyt. This shows utter disrespect. One could either kick her out here or make sure she understands that she crossed a boundary. How could one act if we dont want to kick her out but wanted her to understand she crossed a boundary?

Being reactive is just what she wants, since she is after getting under the skin. So as if I understand correctly one should not go and say things like "But how do you know I wouldn't be a great father, I am so cool" and proceed to try to prove yourself.

So what are the other options? Withdrawing attention completely?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Robert28

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I’d be asking myself what red flags did I miss in such a girl that made her get to the point to feel comfortable enough to say something like that to me.
 

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I’d be asking myself what red flags did I miss in such a girl that made her get to the point to feel comfortable enough to say something like that to me.
Many flags. Red blues yellows pirate flags all kinds. She was just fcked up... me too.
 

Jack12345

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As I already said - she wanted me to show her boundaries. No logic, women know only emotions. Explain her logically all the reasons you could be a good father won't help.

You're not aggressive nor reactive. You're calm. She deserves a punishment and she knows that.

"Get out"

Be that ONE MAN she'll remember
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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