I wouldn't be able to ignore that shyt. This shows utter disrespect. One could either kick her out here or make sure she understands that she crossed a boundary. How could one act if we dont want to kick her out but wanted her to understand she crossed a boundary?The peak was when she teased me that I will not be a good father. In that moment i shouldve throw her the **** out of my apartment and she would back on 4. But I didnt. Respect is everything.
Being reactive is just what she wants, since she is after getting under the skin. So as if I understand correctly one should not go and say things like "But how do you know I wouldn't be a great father, I am so cool" and proceed to try to prove yourself.
So what are the other options? Withdrawing attention completely?