"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can one act in a case when woman disrespected you?

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The peak was when she teased me that I will not be a good father. In that moment i shouldve throw her the **** out of my apartment and she would back on 4. But I didnt. Respect is everything.
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I wouldn't be able to ignore that shyt. This shows utter disrespect. One could either kick her out here or make sure she understands that she crossed a boundary. How could one act if we dont want to kick her out but wanted her to understand she crossed a boundary?

Being reactive is just what she wants, since she is after getting under the skin. So as if I understand correctly one should not go and say things like "But how do you know I wouldn't be a great father, I am so cool" and proceed to try to prove yourself.

So what are the other options? Withdrawing attention completely?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I’d be asking myself what red flags did I miss in such a girl that made her get to the point to feel comfortable enough to say something like that to me.
 
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I’d be asking myself what red flags did I miss in such a girl that made her get to the point to feel comfortable enough to say something like that to me.
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Many flags. Red blues yellows pirate flags all kinds. She was just fcked up... me too.
 
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As I already said - she wanted me to show her boundaries. No logic, women know only emotions. Explain her logically all the reasons you could be a good father won't help.

You're not aggressive nor reactive. You're calm. She deserves a punishment and she knows that.

"Get out"

Be that ONE MAN she'll remember
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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