"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how can i talk with popular girls?

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how can i talk with popular girls coz there allways wid loads of people or busy playin a game with them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the same way you talk to your parents, your friends or your dog

i think you see yourself as inferior to these people. just because they're popular, they're suddenly much better than you are? wtf? read this http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926

then read the bible, the whole bible and nothing but the bible, while watching as few pornos as possible

the last sentence is an amazing tip, so i think this should be left in the tips section; in fact i think you should type what i wrote out in size72 letters, print it out and pin it up on your wall and think to yourself, "Who is that man?"
 
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Moved to Discussion.
 
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Takes 1 to talk, and 2 to chat.

Just talk bout random stuff, I suppose you're in school, so that should give you relevant things to talk about.

If you have to constantly try to talk to them, then its probably pointless, cause they have no interest in you. Give them a reason to talk to you.
 
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DJ Alejandro

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establish your reputation and be popular yourself would be a good foundation for everything. meaning it would be easier and "natural" for you to talk to girls like her.

start with her social circles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm guessing your still in highschool if you're asking about a "popular" girl. What you need to do is talk to her like your the most popular guy. A lot of times these girls are stuck-up. Just talk to her like she is some girl that doesn't matter.
 
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