"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how can i talk with popular girls?

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how can i talk with popular girls coz there allways wid loads of people or busy playin a game with them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the same way you talk to your parents, your friends or your dog

i think you see yourself as inferior to these people. just because they're popular, they're suddenly much better than you are? wtf? read this http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926

then read the bible, the whole bible and nothing but the bible, while watching as few pornos as possible

the last sentence is an amazing tip, so i think this should be left in the tips section; in fact i think you should type what i wrote out in size72 letters, print it out and pin it up on your wall and think to yourself, "Who is that man?"
 
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Moved to Discussion.
 
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Takes 1 to talk, and 2 to chat.

Just talk bout random stuff, I suppose you're in school, so that should give you relevant things to talk about.

If you have to constantly try to talk to them, then its probably pointless, cause they have no interest in you. Give them a reason to talk to you.
 
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establish your reputation and be popular yourself would be a good foundation for everything. meaning it would be easier and "natural" for you to talk to girls like her.

start with her social circles.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm guessing your still in highschool if you're asking about a "popular" girl. What you need to do is talk to her like your the most popular guy. A lot of times these girls are stuck-up. Just talk to her like she is some girl that doesn't matter.
 
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