"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How can I stop being a "nice guy"

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I have been having this problem for a long time and it seems that it might stick with me forever. I CAN'T STOP BEING A GIRLS SERVANT I feel that I am constantly used by all the girls. I like to help but DAM. I have been reading a lot of posts and seing how nice guys turn into classy guys. I want to be a classy guy. But Im so confused.
HOW CAN I STOP BEING THE NICE GUY AND START BEING MYSELF AND NOT

HAVING GIRLS LIKE ME BECAUSE I DID THIS AND THIS.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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.....sigh.... IF YOU LOOK AT THE TOP 3 POSTS ITS SAYS STICKY READ ALL THOSE. ONE OF EM IS THE HIGH SCHOOL BIBLE, IF YOUW WANT MORE THEN CLICK ON DJ BIBLE.

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The key to making a change in life is not just about changing behaviors or mentalities. It's about changing yourself. Criticize your own character and make progress towards becoming the person you want to be. Once you have improved yourself to the point where you're satisfied with who you are, being yourself should be more than enough to attract women.

Stop thinking that attraction is just the cover on the book. Delve deeper and really internalize what you learn around here. It will make you a better person, and at one point, you'll realize that being yourself isn't so bad anymore.

-Damian
 
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Greetings, "Mr. Nice Guy!"

I wrote a book called "From PIMP to WIMP: The Non-Juan's Guide to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams," and the first chapter is called "The Nice Guy: A Perfect Image for a Non-Juan?"

To read it, go here: www.nonjuanbookpreview.blogspot.com.

-Mr. Non-Juan
"Teaching Men to Be Good With Women... by Showing How to LOSE Them!"
 
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HOW CAN I STOP BEING THE NICE GUY AND START BEING MYSELF

Stop caring what people think, stop trying to mold yourself into a image that you think 'they' will like. Who cares what they like? Who are they to you? What makes them so damn special?

Do and say whatever the hell you want, if they don't like...oh f*cking well.

Note: Girls love guys with this frame of mind.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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