"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How can I stop being a "nice guy"

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I have been having this problem for a long time and it seems that it might stick with me forever. I CAN'T STOP BEING A GIRLS SERVANT I feel that I am constantly used by all the girls. I like to help but DAM. I have been reading a lot of posts and seing how nice guys turn into classy guys. I want to be a classy guy. But Im so confused.
HOW CAN I STOP BEING THE NICE GUY AND START BEING MYSELF AND NOT

HAVING GIRLS LIKE ME BECAUSE I DID THIS AND THIS.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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.....sigh.... IF YOU LOOK AT THE TOP 3 POSTS ITS SAYS STICKY READ ALL THOSE. ONE OF EM IS THE HIGH SCHOOL BIBLE, IF YOUW WANT MORE THEN CLICK ON DJ BIBLE.

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The key to making a change in life is not just about changing behaviors or mentalities. It's about changing yourself. Criticize your own character and make progress towards becoming the person you want to be. Once you have improved yourself to the point where you're satisfied with who you are, being yourself should be more than enough to attract women.

Stop thinking that attraction is just the cover on the book. Delve deeper and really internalize what you learn around here. It will make you a better person, and at one point, you'll realize that being yourself isn't so bad anymore.

-Damian
 
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Greetings, "Mr. Nice Guy!"

I wrote a book called "From PIMP to WIMP: The Non-Juan's Guide to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams," and the first chapter is called "The Nice Guy: A Perfect Image for a Non-Juan?"

To read it, go here: www.nonjuanbookpreview.blogspot.com.

-Mr. Non-Juan
"Teaching Men to Be Good With Women... by Showing How to LOSE Them!"
 
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HOW CAN I STOP BEING THE NICE GUY AND START BEING MYSELF

Stop caring what people think, stop trying to mold yourself into a image that you think 'they' will like. Who cares what they like? Who are they to you? What makes them so damn special?

Do and say whatever the hell you want, if they don't like...oh f*cking well.

Note: Girls love guys with this frame of mind.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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