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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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how can i squat w/o a rack

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my question is how can i do squats without a squat rack .... i have the bar but i simply cannot get it off my back once ive done the squats because its too heavy .... is there another way to gain maximum muscle growth doing another kind of squat?

at the moment im just doing deadlifts and benching incline and flat
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are you lifting at home?
 

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I used to do weights at home when I was a little younger.

You'll probley need a friend to help you get the bar down (that if you can even get it onto your shoulders by yourself).

Maybe you could build your own rack.
 

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i can lift a heavy rack onto my back but cant get it off by myself but my problem is it digs into my back and hurts it is there any other type of squats that dont involve a rack... all i have ar some dumbbells a benchpress which i bench on and use to deadlift
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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I'm in the same situation, I'm gonna try hack squats, from what I understand the same muscles as a back squat in addition to forearms are involved and no rack required.
 

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If you're good with a welder than build your own rack. I work out at home and until I could afford the power rack I have now, I chained the bar to the ceiling joists in my basement at the lowest point in my squat, that way if my legs ever crapped out at the bottom of a squat I didn't get stapled to the floor.

Or save up some money and buy a power rack. I found a used one on ebay for 400 bucks, and it's the best investment I've ever made.

Hack squats are a great exercise. To be honest I feel it working my quads more, while the barbell squat I feel in my hips. You don't need any fancy machine, just put the bar behind your calves and pick the damn thing up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Use weight that you can lift and put down comfortably without need for a squat rack.

Likewise when bench pressing without a spotter. Never take on more weight than you can handle.

Also note that there's such a thing as volume training. In other words, you choose a lower weight and perform higher reps. This isn't particularly effective in building strength, but if you're working out to look good, it will serve your purpose and be more practical for home workouts.
 

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Have your tried your YMCA's/community centers/community colleges for a gym you can afford?

There are some really run down gym's in my town that are probably hella cheap. Maybe theirs one in your town too.
 

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Front squats. Ah yes.

Thanks for the reminder Throttle.

Look up front squats. If you're going to lift any sort of weight thats considered "heavy" to you, there will be no way you can just put it on your back. Either try to build a rack, or find a local gym (get a job)


Does your school have a weightroom?
 

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Call me ignorant, but I'm clueless as to what pov means.

Is it a short version of poverty? meaning poor? Or am I just out of the loop on some foreign slang?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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