"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How can I salvage this?

thatdude156

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Me: You look just like my ex
But still cute ;)

Her: Lol thanks

Me: I imagined we were in the bathroom together and you're trying to seduce me and its working. We go into the shower but the water won't turn on. At this moment, we start making out. You're a surprisingly good kisser.

Her: That's pretty hot I'm gonna be honest

Me: Send me something that's not so pg13

Her: As we kiss, you hug me tightly and rub your body against mine. It feels so good to be touching and I kiss you even more passionately. I feel your crotch bulging against my inner thigh and it's growing bigger by the second

Me: I remove my shirt and my abs glean with sweat. Your eyes are glazed with excitement. I lay you on the ground and kiss your thighs slowly moving my way up. I slowly part your vagina with my tongue while rubbing your ****. You are moaning in pleasure.

Me: I bet my weekend will beat your weekend :p

Her: Naaahh I don't think so
What makes you say that?

Me: Oh yeah? What are you going to do?

Her: I'm doing like nothing lmao

Me: I'm going to friends prom pre party dressed as a giant penis lol

I feel like I came on too strong with my tezt about eating her out. I'm thinking of ignoring her for a few days and then restart the interaction
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Watawata

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Did it take you 1 message to escalate to sexting?
 

Peña

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Do not ask her to send you messages not PG 13. She should follow the message you sent with her own sexy text. You rushed it too fast with her. If she is turned off it is already done.
 

thatdude156

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I knew she wanted a date but I thought I moved too fast with my previous text. That was why I didn't proceed. I want to shedule a date for Monday, what do you guys think about that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Peña

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Ruler said:
There's no such thing as 'too fast' as far as moving sexually.
There is too if she is not up for it yet. If she was up for it she would continue sex text and she did not.
 
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