"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can I salvage this?

thatdude156

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Me: You look just like my ex
But still cute ;)

Her: Lol thanks

Me: I imagined we were in the bathroom together and you're trying to seduce me and its working. We go into the shower but the water won't turn on. At this moment, we start making out. You're a surprisingly good kisser.

Her: That's pretty hot I'm gonna be honest

Me: Send me something that's not so pg13

Her: As we kiss, you hug me tightly and rub your body against mine. It feels so good to be touching and I kiss you even more passionately. I feel your crotch bulging against my inner thigh and it's growing bigger by the second

Me: I remove my shirt and my abs glean with sweat. Your eyes are glazed with excitement. I lay you on the ground and kiss your thighs slowly moving my way up. I slowly part your vagina with my tongue while rubbing your ****. You are moaning in pleasure.

Me: I bet my weekend will beat your weekend :p

Her: Naaahh I don't think so
What makes you say that?

Me: Oh yeah? What are you going to do?

Her: I'm doing like nothing lmao

Me: I'm going to friends prom pre party dressed as a giant penis lol

I feel like I came on too strong with my tezt about eating her out. I'm thinking of ignoring her for a few days and then restart the interaction
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Watawata

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Did it take you 1 message to escalate to sexting?
 

Peña

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Do not ask her to send you messages not PG 13. She should follow the message you sent with her own sexy text. You rushed it too fast with her. If she is turned off it is already done.
 

thatdude156

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I knew she wanted a date but I thought I moved too fast with my previous text. That was why I didn't proceed. I want to shedule a date for Monday, what do you guys think about that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Peña

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Ruler said:
There's no such thing as 'too fast' as far as moving sexually.
There is too if she is not up for it yet. If she was up for it she would continue sex text and she did not.
 
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