"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How can I salvage this?

thatdude156

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Me: You look just like my ex
But still cute ;)

Her: Lol thanks

Me: I imagined we were in the bathroom together and you're trying to seduce me and its working. We go into the shower but the water won't turn on. At this moment, we start making out. You're a surprisingly good kisser.

Her: That's pretty hot I'm gonna be honest

Me: Send me something that's not so pg13

Her: As we kiss, you hug me tightly and rub your body against mine. It feels so good to be touching and I kiss you even more passionately. I feel your crotch bulging against my inner thigh and it's growing bigger by the second

Me: I remove my shirt and my abs glean with sweat. Your eyes are glazed with excitement. I lay you on the ground and kiss your thighs slowly moving my way up. I slowly part your vagina with my tongue while rubbing your ****. You are moaning in pleasure.

Me: I bet my weekend will beat your weekend :p

Her: Naaahh I don't think so
What makes you say that?

Me: Oh yeah? What are you going to do?

Her: I'm doing like nothing lmao

Me: I'm going to friends prom pre party dressed as a giant penis lol

I feel like I came on too strong with my tezt about eating her out. I'm thinking of ignoring her for a few days and then restart the interaction
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Watawata

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Did it take you 1 message to escalate to sexting?
 

Peña

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Do not ask her to send you messages not PG 13. She should follow the message you sent with her own sexy text. You rushed it too fast with her. If she is turned off it is already done.
 

thatdude156

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I knew she wanted a date but I thought I moved too fast with my previous text. That was why I didn't proceed. I want to shedule a date for Monday, what do you guys think about that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Peña

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Ruler said:
There's no such thing as 'too fast' as far as moving sexually.
There is too if she is not up for it yet. If she was up for it she would continue sex text and she did not.
 
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