"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vulnerability

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This situ is about a chick who I called and she said:"Call me a later on, I am having a shower right now"(laughing).
I said:"Alright-Bye".

Now, I think I had to tell her that she has to call me.

The dilemma now is, either call her as I promised and say something CF, or to not call her the same day.

How do you recover from this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PectoralisMajor

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she's probably getting her brains f*cked out by some other fella.

ANY girl interested in speaking to you would hold off the shower till after speaking to you.

NEXT !
 

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I'd be like "why the hell are you answering the phone in the middle of a shower"?
 

Telos

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r0cky said:
Maybe she meant a baby shower?
If by "baby shower" you mean a shower during which she is making babies, yes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vulnerability said:
This situ is about a chick who I called and she said:"Call me a later on, I am having a shower right now"(laughing).
I said:"Alright-Bye".

Now, I think I had to tell her that she has to call me.

The dilemma now is, either call her as I promised and say something CF, or to not call her the same day.

How do you recover from this?
Seems like she's abit flaky, but it's impossible to know because we don't know the whole situation.
 
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