"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How can I recover?

Vulnerability

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This situ is about a chick who I called and she said:"Call me a later on, I am having a shower right now"(laughing).
I said:"Alright-Bye".

Now, I think I had to tell her that she has to call me.

The dilemma now is, either call her as I promised and say something CF, or to not call her the same day.

How do you recover from this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PectoralisMajor

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she's probably getting her brains f*cked out by some other fella.

ANY girl interested in speaking to you would hold off the shower till after speaking to you.

NEXT !
 

Schmuck

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I'd be like "why the hell are you answering the phone in the middle of a shower"?
 

Telos

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r0cky said:
Maybe she meant a baby shower?
If by "baby shower" you mean a shower during which she is making babies, yes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vulnerability said:
This situ is about a chick who I called and she said:"Call me a later on, I am having a shower right now"(laughing).
I said:"Alright-Bye".

Now, I think I had to tell her that she has to call me.

The dilemma now is, either call her as I promised and say something CF, or to not call her the same day.

How do you recover from this?
Seems like she's abit flaky, but it's impossible to know because we don't know the whole situation.
 
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