"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This situ is about a chick who I called and she said:"Call me a later on, I am having a shower right now"(laughing).
I said:"Alright-Bye".

Now, I think I had to tell her that she has to call me.

The dilemma now is, either call her as I promised and say something CF, or to not call her the same day.

How do you recover from this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she's probably getting her brains f*cked out by some other fella.

ANY girl interested in speaking to you would hold off the shower till after speaking to you.

NEXT !
 
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I'd be like "why the hell are you answering the phone in the middle of a shower"?
 
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r0cky said:
Maybe she meant a baby shower?
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If by "baby shower" you mean a shower during which she is making babies, yes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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Vulnerability said:
This situ is about a chick who I called and she said:"Call me a later on, I am having a shower right now"(laughing).
I said:"Alright-Bye".

Now, I think I had to tell her that she has to call me.

The dilemma now is, either call her as I promised and say something CF, or to not call her the same day.

How do you recover from this?
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Seems like she's abit flaky, but it's impossible to know because we don't know the whole situation.
 
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