Over last few months ive been with diffrent girls trying to find one that i acually really like. Well now ive done it and i need some tips on how to keep the relationship going good ive searched the articles on this site ive only found one that has any information on keeping relationships fresh and how to keep the woman interested so if anyone has some GOOD tips please post.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How can i keep a heathly realtionship
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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she can trust you while still not knowing a lot about you
Do a lot of fun things. Use action dates and fun plans like bowling, or a sport that she might like (tip: everyone loves water sports, EVERYONEdjweses89 said:
).Take her donutting (if you don't know what that is, it's not going around to all the doughnut shops....it's where you sit in a round inflatable 'raft' tethered to the back of a boat and hold on
) if you can, it's great fun.but yeah you seem to be doing alright if you've kept it going. Keep up the good work
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.