Over last few months ive been with diffrent girls trying to find one that i acually really like. Well now ive done it and i need some tips on how to keep the relationship going good ive searched the articles on this site ive only found one that has any information on keeping relationships fresh and how to keep the woman interested so if anyone has some GOOD tips please post.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How can i keep a heathly realtionship
- Thread starter djweses89
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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she can trust you while still not knowing a lot about you
Do a lot of fun things. Use action dates and fun plans like bowling, or a sport that she might like (tip: everyone loves water sports, EVERYONEdjweses89 said:
).Take her donutting (if you don't know what that is, it's not going around to all the doughnut shops....it's where you sit in a round inflatable 'raft' tethered to the back of a boat and hold on
) if you can, it's great fun.but yeah you seem to be doing alright if you've kept it going. Keep up the good work
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.