Over last few months ive been with diffrent girls trying to find one that i acually really like. Well now ive done it and i need some tips on how to keep the relationship going good ive searched the articles on this site ive only found one that has any information on keeping relationships fresh and how to keep the woman interested so if anyone has some GOOD tips please post.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How can i keep a heathly realtionship
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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she can trust you while still not knowing a lot about you
Do a lot of fun things. Use action dates and fun plans like bowling, or a sport that she might like (tip: everyone loves water sports, EVERYONEdjweses89 said:
).Take her donutting (if you don't know what that is, it's not going around to all the doughnut shops....it's where you sit in a round inflatable 'raft' tethered to the back of a boat and hold on
) if you can, it's great fun.but yeah you seem to be doing alright if you've kept it going. Keep up the good work
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.