Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How Can I get This Plate Back?

soulforge

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ok so here is my current situation

i have two plates that i am seeing at the moment


plate no1 --- average looking, average body, but she is sexully quite alot of fun

plate no2 --- good looking, smoking body, but sex wise boring in that department


a couple of months ago i had a argument with a plate i was seeing & the argument got out of hand, some bad things was said back & forth... so we ended up not speaking to each other again

now this plate is a total slvt.... not in a million years worthy of a relationship.. while she was seeing me, she was pushing hard for a relationship, but i did not feel she was worthy

anyhow this chick is a freak... she was happy to do 3sums, 4sums, even let other guys f@ck her, while i watched or joined in.

this chick was even drinking urine straight from my c@ck haha


anyhow i really want this plate back, so i can have some sexual adventures with her...


what are my options??


no contact?? in this case i really don't think no contact can work, as it was not a proper relationship & i was only seeing her 3 months

my other option is to text her & see if she responds??

what have i to lose? if she ignores me, then f@ck her...she was just a sl@t and was never going to be a girlfreind or a relationship... so what have i lost? NOTHING

there is a possibility she could be f@cking next man already... but if i don't try, i guess i will never know

so if i want to keep her around for fun, is it okay to text her, or stay no contact?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Willard

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Just text her how are you? and see how she responds. You have nothing to lose.
 

soulforge

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im thinking maybe just send her a simple text saying "hey hope your doing good"

and see if she responds back

if she chooses not to respond back, then f@ck it... she wasn't exactly a girlfriend to me
 

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It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal in your head.

Just text her. Who cares? Just try not to get upset if she doesn't respond. But at that point at least you know it's completely over, right?
 

soulforge

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Uncharted said:
It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal in your head.

Just text her. Who cares? Just try not to get upset if she doesn't respond. But at that point at least you know it's completely over, right?

well this chick will never be a girlfriend... way too many red flags... so seriously what have i to lose..

if i don't hear back from her, it's not like i lost out on a quality woman or a potential long term partner.

just could do with keep her around sex wise
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sylvester the cat

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despite the fact you have other options and despite how many times you repeat she means nothing to you, the fact that you are asking this question tells me you are on some level invested in this girl.

just call or text her. her response will tell you all you need to know. 'hey' is really all you need to say.
 
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