"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How Can I get This Plate Back?

soulforge

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ok so here is my current situation

i have two plates that i am seeing at the moment


plate no1 --- average looking, average body, but she is sexully quite alot of fun

plate no2 --- good looking, smoking body, but sex wise boring in that department


a couple of months ago i had a argument with a plate i was seeing & the argument got out of hand, some bad things was said back & forth... so we ended up not speaking to each other again

now this plate is a total slvt.... not in a million years worthy of a relationship.. while she was seeing me, she was pushing hard for a relationship, but i did not feel she was worthy

anyhow this chick is a freak... she was happy to do 3sums, 4sums, even let other guys f@ck her, while i watched or joined in.

this chick was even drinking urine straight from my c@ck haha


anyhow i really want this plate back, so i can have some sexual adventures with her...


what are my options??


no contact?? in this case i really don't think no contact can work, as it was not a proper relationship & i was only seeing her 3 months

my other option is to text her & see if she responds??

what have i to lose? if she ignores me, then f@ck her...she was just a sl@t and was never going to be a girlfreind or a relationship... so what have i lost? NOTHING

there is a possibility she could be f@cking next man already... but if i don't try, i guess i will never know

so if i want to keep her around for fun, is it okay to text her, or stay no contact?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Willard

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Just text her how are you? and see how she responds. You have nothing to lose.
 

soulforge

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im thinking maybe just send her a simple text saying "hey hope your doing good"

and see if she responds back

if she chooses not to respond back, then f@ck it... she wasn't exactly a girlfriend to me
 

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It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal in your head.

Just text her. Who cares? Just try not to get upset if she doesn't respond. But at that point at least you know it's completely over, right?
 

soulforge

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Uncharted said:
It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal in your head.

Just text her. Who cares? Just try not to get upset if she doesn't respond. But at that point at least you know it's completely over, right?

well this chick will never be a girlfriend... way too many red flags... so seriously what have i to lose..

if i don't hear back from her, it's not like i lost out on a quality woman or a potential long term partner.

just could do with keep her around sex wise
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sylvester the cat

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despite the fact you have other options and despite how many times you repeat she means nothing to you, the fact that you are asking this question tells me you are on some level invested in this girl.

just call or text her. her response will tell you all you need to know. 'hey' is really all you need to say.
 
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